гнетущий

adj.

dismal; depressing (tending to make one sad or gloomy • What a depressing piece of news); sulky; sullen; leadening; depressive; sulky (о погоде и т.п.); grinding (Notburga); deadening (4uzhoj); grievous; dire; cheerless; oppressive; bleak (Aly19); doomy (She`s always doomy.

ldoceonline.com RusakovaOlga); uncomfortable (Abysslooker); disturbing (Abysslooker); pressing (sea holly); boisterous; unsatisfying (I can see how that might be unsatisfying Побеdа); eerie (Побеdа); brooding (brooding silence Abysslooker); oppressing

onerous (Alik-angel)

stricken (He and Lily were both in the kitchen at the time, clearing plates from another silent, stricken dinner. Abysslooker)

overwhelming (AlexandraM)

distressing (amatsyuk)