Terms for subject Proverb containing don't you cry

English	Russian
don't cry before you are hurt	не реви раньше смерти
you don't know whether to laugh or cry	и смех и грех
you don't know whether to laugh or cry	смех и грех
you don't know whether to laugh or cry	смех и горе
you don't know whether to laugh or cry	и смех и горе